Monday, 31 October 2016

DAIYA RE! YEH KAHAN AA FASI…


With the Transition span from school to  college , zeal in mind and  lots of questions that  what is going to happen next , a girl experiences many  challenges and  tough situations. The first is her attire…(it’s indeed very  tough for her mahn..:P even tougher than getting up early in the morning..:P)
  • It should be different from the one she used to carry in her school days
  • She should look hotter than other  divas
  • Her clothes need to be flaunting…
  • The boys need to get attracted by her overall makeover…
PEHLI NAZAR MEIN KESA JAADU KARDIA MOMENT
  It’s her first day in  the  college  and  she  is  full  of  ambitions , she indeed admires to  be   one of the best  news anchor’s of  the  world.She  is  looking  at  the  anonymous  faces of  her  class like a  curious cat and thinking about  who  could  be  her  friend  the  next  moment.Time for the” Pehli  nazar mein kesa jaadu  krdia”  moment, when  her eyeball stops at  a smiling face  whose aura is so strong that  she could’nt  take  away  her  gaze  from  him. I think , in  her  perspective  he  could be her  future  bestie…
          “ji pehle  aap”
Best  friend  is  decided…but  how  to  approach  now?...(question is  in her mind). Being  a girl how  can I approach.. it’s against  my  girly  principles..huh…A boy  can’t  be   higher than  my  ego. Let him  take the  ‘ji  pehle aap” initiative… days passed but no one is  taking the initiative.shall I  be the  first?(girl thinks..)The pendulum of  await  has  finally  come  to rest when  professor  assigns  a project  to the pair  of  students and  yippee  he  is  her assignment partner.They finally  become friends  followed  by  a  brief intro.
“yeh dosti hum nahi todenge”
Assignment  is  just  an  excuse  to  be  with  your   bestfriend , indeed  it’s an  opportunity  to  be  together  and  being  a  journalism and  mass  communication student, she  is  following her teacher’s ethics  of  not  to miss  any  opportunity (with  a  changed  perspective..:p)
“ishq waala love”
A phase  of  entanglements and  attachment has  finally  arrived, nights  are  sleepless and  days   full  of  desires. It’s a wonderful   feeling  she  can’t  escape  from. She has  started  dreaming  of  a  scrupulous  life  with her future boyfriend. Oh yes, her  bestie  is  now  her future boyfriend. She is  still  confused whether  it’s  love  or infatuation but  it  is  certain that  there  is  a  connection.
“Ladki beautiful kar gayi chul”
It’s her  bestie’s birthday  and  the surrounding  are  joyous. Birthday celebrations are  at  it’s peak  when  she  boozed  more  than  enough and  lost  her  conscious of  what  she  is  doing and  proposed  her  bestie, although a  drunk  proposal but  indeed a  proposal.
Jag suna suna  laagey
She is confused about what happened  last  night , what blunder she  actually  created. Suddenly, her  phone  started ringing. It was her bestie  who  is  actually  aghast about what  she did previous night. Was it  a  prank?..(he is  full of  questions) .he recalls her  about  what  insanity she did and tells  her  that she  isn’t his type  and  they  can’t be  more  than  friends.She  is  fully  shattered with a “jag  suna suna” effect.
Dil yeh ziddi hai
A girl’s ego is her life and a “No” ( a  rejection by  a boy). How  could he  say  a NO  to  her . Earlier  she used to  reject  the  boys and  she  had  rejected so many  in her class. it wasn’t conspicuous for a diva like  her to  accept this  rejection. Now , she  was  determined  to make that   stupid  chap realize his mistake and accept  her  the  way  she  is. She  was  striving  to ignore  him  as  much  as  she  could.( not to worry  readers we  are  playing  the  song "dil yeh  ziddi  hai" in  the  background..;p) she didn’t received  his  phone calls and  he  is  now in an “alien mode” according  to  her.The  clever  girl  actually  applied  the  reverse psychology. She  did  all the  thing  adversary  to  his  expectations  which  act as  a  magnet  to  attract  the  boy towards  her  who  finally  realized  his  mistake  and  apologized.
Finally, happy  ending
They  are  now  love birds who  are enjoying  to  the  fullest. Not aware   of  the  things  which are  going  to  happen  the  next. Will  it  be  love  and  only  love  or  qualms  followed by  a  sad  breakup.
Need to know  what will happen  next? You  will  have  to  wait  for the  next  post viewers.






Saturday, 8 October 2016

LOVE V/S INFATUATION


Deeds often get confused between what love is and what is infatuation about.Now, if you are at your teens and you think playing of piano in your imagination for someone special is an indication of true love,then my friend you have barked the wrong tree.Love is something different,love is acceptance. Accepting people and situations as they are is the real meaning of love.All of us  face  a  situation in our life when we are confused between love and infatuation.We  are not able to find whether we are in love with a person or it’s just a acceptance of his company in our life for a acute period. There are some  tips which could help one to  find a perfect match .
·     If you are able to accept the person the way he/she is, you are definitely in love and if you are reluctant to do so, then my friend better you look for someone else.
·     Love is divine whereas infatuation is lust
       sexual feelings for your  partner is definitely not love  it  is more beyond sex , if your partner says a NO, it does not means that he/she doesn't love you, it simply means that it is beyond their comfort zone....so no need to force your parner..:p
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·     Love is beyond any relation while infatuation, it get restricted within relation
       love  has no bar , it can  be  for anyone.It can be for the  nature ; for the animals around ; for your girlfriend or your boyfriend....LOVE is LOVE. All  of  us  meet anonymous faces in our life , why  do  we feel like talking to them?.....The answer  is  love....because   love  is actually a  human nature....we  don't  hate  anyone from the  very beginning...and if  we don't hate  anyone we  obviously  love everyone..because love is complimentary  to hatred..
·     Love is smile while infatuation is sorrow
l      love  is  indeed  a  symbol  of  happiness. Whey  do  we  feel  calm  whenever  we are  around  smiley faces?...it's just  because  they  are  lovely  and  we feel  relaxed around  them...infatuation on  other  side , creates an  ocean   of  sadness  where  the fishes  of  misunderstanding , jealousy , anger , entanglement etc etc..exists...
·     Love doesn’t need explanation while infatuation does
       are  you  giving   explainations   to  your  friends  or  your partners?.....my  friend  if  is  it so , it  is  definitely not  love.If  your  buddy  knows you  he/she  would  never  ask  for  an  explanation  for   whatever  you  do...they  will  accept  your acions..
·     Love is long-lasting while infatuation is acute
       "ek  baaar   nahi  yeh  dil  100 baar  hai  tuta  par  shok mohabbat  ka  ab tak  na  chutaaa" dude if  your     heart  has shattered   so much..then  it  was'nt  your  mohabbat(love), it  was  your infatuation which  is'nt  forever...


·     Infatuation is expectation and love it doesn’t need any  expectation.Think about your parents,they do so much for you but do they ever expect anything in return?
No, they never do so.Love is actually aimless,it does not have a motive.It cherishes our soul.So,no need get entangled in the thoughts of confusion because these things will definitely be a sword to fight between love and infatuation.