COLLEGE KI SHAAM OR EK COFFEE

From giggles to bitter quarrels; from having fun to sentimental talks; from getting scolded  by professors to scold the professors; from decent fellas to the  hooligans of the campus; from fashion divas to the simple attires of the girls, college life is  a  blend  of  people and experiences. Being a part of this life I am experiencing all such things. Frankly if say , I didn’t ever  imagined that  my college  life would be  like the way  I see  in movies i.e. the  fights due  to “college kudis”; “the jodies” (couples) when  I  see  them  it really  makes  me  recall  the movie “Jaane tu ya jaane na”. I also felt tears  in my eyeball when someone slapped  my friend in the college  just  for  a stupid reason which was to have  a selfie with a  girl. Indeed in real life too we burst into tears when our friend is hurt, we cry when they cry, we are tensed when they  are tensed. Reel life and real life are so much similar in this way. All the  stress  which gets invoked inside our  mind in the college hours  ,finally  comes  to  an  end  when  I  have  a coffee  with  friends at last. This moment is amazing and worth capturing which I daily want to live.

"BHED CHAAL"- Is'nt it common?

The concept of "bhed chaal" is in every youth's mind. Now, the question arises-"What 'Bhed Chaal' actually is?" Bhed Chaal is a Hindi phrase that means the movement of sheep. If one sheep jumps in the pit, the other also do the same. Today's youth and "THE BHEDS" are much similar in this way. Most of them are such a hypocrite, they want to be unique but are not ready to do something unique. It is neither their fault nor it's the fault of their upbringing, the fault is of their age at which confusions conquer their mind. They have become rigid about what they want to do in their life and the major reason for this could be peer pressure. 

At the teenage friends become more important than their parents. The world of dreams rather than the practical world becomes the centre of attraction to them. They do not think about how facilitated their city is, all they think is that they want to go away from their city. Actually, facilities don't matter to them, the reality is that-"IF THEIR FRIENDS ARE GOING, WHY CAN'T THEY?"They say, oops sorry!  their friends say influenced by them they say that if they will live away from their hometown, they will become independent. 

Psychologists say that the phase of teenage is the most confusing phase of life. They are not even capable to distinguish between what is wrong or what is right, then how can one expect them to choose the best option for their career. Going outside their city most of them are just trapped in the vicious circle of activities that are not good for them. They should listen to their parents about what they ask them to do because they are the best well-wisher of their child and can never think something wrong about them. Parents on the other hand rather than punishing or chiding their child should handle them with care even if they do something wrong. They should become their friends at this stage and listen to them with a calm mind. Believe in your parents-"THEY CAN BE YOUR BEST FRIEND"......

At  last, I would like to say do not think so much about your future-"LIVE IN PRESENT, THIS MOMENT IS INEVITABLE."