The concept of "bhed chaal" is in every youth's mind. Now, the question arises-"What 'Bhed Chaal' actually is?" Bhed Chaal is a Hindi phrase that means the movement of sheep. If one sheep jumps in the pit, the other also do the same. Today's youth and "THE BHEDS" are much similar in this way. Most of them are such a hypocrite, they want to be unique but are not ready to do something unique. It is neither their fault nor it's the fault of their upbringing, the fault is of their age at which confusions conquer their mind. They have become rigid about what they want to do in their life and the major reason for this could be peer pressure.
At the teenage friends become more important than their parents. The world of dreams rather than the practical world becomes the centre of attraction to them. They do not think about how facilitated their city is, all they think is that they want to go away from their city. Actually, facilities don't matter to them, the reality is that-"IF THEIR FRIENDS ARE GOING, WHY CAN'T THEY?"They say, oops sorry! their friends say influenced by them they say that if they will live away from their hometown, they will become independent.
Psychologists say that the phase of teenage is the most confusing phase of life. They are not even capable to distinguish between what is wrong or what is right, then how can one expect them to choose the best option for their career. Going outside their city most of them are just trapped in the vicious circle of activities that are not good for them. They should listen to their parents about what they ask them to do because they are the best well-wisher of their child and can never think something wrong about them. Parents on the other hand rather than punishing or chiding their child should handle them with care even if they do something wrong. They should become their friends at this stage and listen to them with a calm mind. Believe in your parents-"THEY CAN BE YOUR BEST FRIEND"......
At last, I would like to say do not think so much about your future-"LIVE IN PRESENT, THIS MOMENT IS INEVITABLE."
