GOLDEN GARBAGE

You  disgrace them , they  embrace you

You think  thousands  of time to sacrifice for them , they sacrifice themselves for you

If  you  think  that  they  are as  inutile  as garbage , then  my  friend  you  are  wrong,

"THEY  ARE  THE PRECIOUS  GOLDEN PIECES WHICH  YOU HAVE   MISTAKEN TO ASSUME AS  GARBAGE"

They  are  your  PARENTS..

I  know  friends  you  were  waiting  for  my  next  blog  on the  college life  and  of course the  love versus infatuation  kind  of  element , this  VALENTINE's  WEEK.
But, writing for this  kind   of  stuff , I actually  missed  the  most  important  element  of  the youth  life, that  important  element   is our  PARENTS , who  brought us  to  this beautiful  world.

WILL YOU  BE  MY  VALENTINE?

I know  guys  you  must  be  busy  buying  valentine's day  gifts  for  your  "pehla pehla pyaar" (your  boyfriend /girlfriend) , but you  have  veritably  missed  the  fact  that YOUR  FIRST ETERNAL  LOVE  IS YOUR  PARENTS.
This  time  plan something  for  them. I  am  not  asking  you  all  to  buy  gifts  for  them , in fact  they  does  not  need  any gift  from  you ,  what  they  need  is  YOUR  LOVE , express  your  love  to  them  this  time ,  saying  them  a simple  "I love you"  will work and  it's  your  choice  if you  wish  to  do  more  for  them.

A PROMISE

Celebrated  promise  day?   

Made  promises  with  your  beloved  ones?

Now, its  the  turn for your parents.

I  want  to  share  my  experience  with  you , it  was  a  time  when I  became  rude  to  my  parents  without even  realizing that what they  would have   felt  by  this  act  of  mine , but  when  I had  a  process in ART OF LIVING YES PLUS COURSE ( won't  tell  you  about the  process :P ) , I  felt  ashamed  of  myself  because   I  actually didn't realized  that what  sacrifices  they  were  making  for  me.( oh!  common  what  is  the point  of  sharing  your  story  here  in this  blog, we  aren't  interested  , please  come  on the  point , :P   you  all  must  be  thinking ) . So , guys   without  wasting your  time , i  want  to  say,
This  time  "Promise  to  your  parents ,  you  will  never  ever  hurt  them whatever  the  situation  may  be" ,
"Never  ask  them  about  the  list  of  the  things , they  did  for  you", because  if  they  will  start  evaluating   their endurance  for  you , you  will   feel  like  dying of  shame ,  so NEVER  MISINTERPRET THEIR  SILENCE  WITH  A   "NO  ANSWER" FOR  YOUR  QUESTIONS, they are  the  ones   who  always  answered  your  most  stupid  questions, when  this  is  the most  logic  one.

TO  DO  LIST  FOR  YOUR  PARENTS, THIS  VALENTINE'S DAY

• A BIG  HUG

• A PROMISE

• A "I LOVE  U" message

• DO  SOMETHING  BY  HEART  FOR THEM  THIS  TIME 

• spend  at least  30  minutes  talking  to  them 

If  your  are  mingled ,  do  celebrate  the  day  with  your beloved one  but  this  time  a  little  for  your "papa- mumma" ,
Singles ,  no  need  to  feel  sad  about  not being  mingled  you  have  a  golden  opportunity to  give  your  time  to  your  parents ( but  make  sure  a  little time :P  , do not  spoil their privacy  haan, they  also  are  a  couple , they  also  need  some  time alone. :P )
cheers!! .. :P 

DAIYA RE! YEH KAHAN AA FASI…

With the Transition span from school to  college , zeal in mind and  lots of questions that  what is going to happen next , a girl experiences many  challenges and  tough situations. The first is her attire…(it’s indeed very  tough for her mahn..:P even tougher than getting up early in the morning..:P)

• It should be different from the one she used to carry in her school days
• She should look hotter than other  divas
• Her clothes need to be flaunting…
• The boys need to get attracted by her overall makeover…

PEHLI NAZAR MEIN KESA JAADU KARDIA MOMENT

  It’s her first day in  the  college  and  she  is  full  of  ambitions , she indeed admires to  be   one of the best  news anchor’s of  the  world.She  is  looking  at  the  anonymous  faces of  her  class like a  curious cat and thinking about  who  could  be  her  friend  the  next  moment.Time for the” Pehli  nazar mein kesa jaadu  krdia”  moment, when  her eyeball stops at  a smiling face  whose aura is so strong that  she could’nt  take  away  her  gaze  from  him. I think , in  her  perspective  he  could be her  future  bestie…
          “ji pehle  aap”

Best  friend  is  decided…but  how  to  approach  now?...(question is  in her mind). Being  a girl how  can I approach.. it’s against  my  girly  principles..huh…A boy  can’t  be   higher than  my  ego. Let him  take the  ‘ji  pehle aap” initiative… days passed but no one is  taking the initiative.shall I  be the  first?(girl thinks..)The pendulum of  await  has  finally  come  to rest when  professor  assigns  a project  to the pair  of  students and  yippee  he  is  her assignment partner.They finally  become friends  followed  by  a  brief intro.

“yeh dosti hum nahi todenge”

Assignment  is  just  an  excuse  to  be  with  your   bestfriend , indeed  it’s an  opportunity  to  be  together  and  being  a  journalism and  mass  communication student, she  is  following her teacher’s ethics  of  not  to miss  any  opportunity (with  a  changed  perspective..:p)

“ishq waala love”

A phase  of  entanglements and  attachment has  finally  arrived, nights  are  sleepless and  days   full  of  desires. It’s a wonderful   feeling  she  can’t  escape  from. She has  started  dreaming  of  a  scrupulous  life  with her future boyfriend. Oh yes, her  bestie  is  now  her future boyfriend. She is  still  confused whether  it’s  love  or infatuation but  it  is  certain that  there  is  a  connection.

“Ladki beautiful kar gayi chul”

It’s her  bestie’s birthday  and  the surrounding  are  joyous. Birthday celebrations are  at  it’s peak  when  she  boozed  more  than  enough and  lost  her  conscious of  what  she  is  doing and  proposed  her  bestie, although a  drunk  proposal but  indeed a  proposal.

Jag suna suna  laagey

She is confused about what happened  last  night , what blunder she  actually  created. Suddenly, her  phone  started ringing. It was her bestie  who  is  actually  aghast about what  she did previous night. Was it  a  prank?..(he is  full of  questions) .he recalls her  about  what  insanity she did and tells  her  that she  isn’t his type  and  they  can’t be  more  than  friends.She  is  fully  shattered with a “jag  suna suna” effect.

Dil yeh ziddi hai

A girl’s ego is her life and a “No” ( a  rejection by  a boy). How  could he  say  a NO  to  her . Earlier  she used to  reject  the  boys and  she  had  rejected so many  in her class. it wasn’t conspicuous for a diva like  her to  accept this  rejection. Now , she  was  determined  to make that   stupid  chap realize his mistake and accept  her  the  way  she  is. She  was  striving  to ignore  him  as  much  as  she  could.( not to worry  readers we  are  playing  the  song "dil yeh  ziddi  hai" in  the  background..;p) she didn’t received  his  phone calls and  he  is  now in an “alien mode” according  to  her.The  clever  girl  actually  applied  the  reverse psychology. She  did  all the  thing  adversary  to  his  expectations  which  act as  a  magnet  to  attract  the  boy towards  her  who  finally  realized  his  mistake  and  apologized.

Finally, happy  ending

They  are  now  love birds who  are enjoying  to  the  fullest. Not aware   of  the  things  which are  going  to  happen  the  next. Will  it  be  love  and  only  love  or  qualms  followed by  a  sad  breakup.

Need to know  what will happen  next? You  will  have  to  wait  for the  next  post viewers.

LOVE V/S INFATUATION

Deeds often get confused between what love is and what is infatuation about.Now, if you are at your teens and you think playing of piano in your imagination for someone special is an indication of true love,then my friend you have barked the wrong tree.Love is something different,love is acceptance. Accepting people and situations as they are is the real meaning of love.All of us  face  a  situation in our life when we are confused between love and infatuation.We  are not able to find whether we are in love with a person or it’s just a acceptance of his company in our life for a acute period. There are some  tips which could help one to  find a perfect match .

·     If you are able to accept the person the way he/she is, you are definitely in love and if you are reluctant to do so, then my friend better you look for someone else.

·     Love is divine whereas infatuation is lust

       sexual feelings for your  partner is definitely not love  it  is more beyond sex , if your partner says a NO, it does not means that he/she doesn't love you, it simply means that it is beyond their comfort zone....so no need to force your parner..:p

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·     Love is beyond any relation while infatuation, it get restricted within relation

       love  has no bar , it can  be  for anyone.It can be for the  nature ; for the animals around ; for your girlfriend or your boyfriend....LOVE is LOVE. All  of  us  meet anonymous faces in our life , why  do  we feel like talking to them?.....The answer  is  love....because   love  is actually a  human nature....we  don't  hate  anyone from the  very beginning...and if  we don't hate  anyone we  obviously  love everyone..because love is complimentary  to hatred..

·     Love is smile while infatuation is sorrow

l      love  is  indeed  a  symbol  of  happiness. Whey  do  we  feel  calm  whenever  we are  around  smiley faces?...it's just  because  they  are  lovely  and  we feel  relaxed around  them...infatuation on  other  side , creates an  ocean   of  sadness  where  the fishes  of  misunderstanding , jealousy , anger , entanglement etc etc..exists...

·     Love doesn’t need explanation while infatuation does

       are  you  giving   explainations   to  your  friends  or  your partners?.....my  friend  if  is  it so , it  is  definitely not  love.If  your  buddy  knows you  he/she  would  never  ask  for  an  explanation  for   whatever  you  do...they  will  accept  your acions..

·     Love is long-lasting while infatuation is acute

       "ek  baaar   nahi  yeh  dil  100 baar  hai  tuta  par  shok mohabbat  ka  ab tak  na  chutaaa" dude if  your     heart  has shattered   so much..then  it  was'nt  your  mohabbat(love), it  was  your infatuation which  is'nt  forever...

·     Infatuation is expectation and love it doesn’t need any  expectation.Think about your parents,they do so much for you but do they ever expect anything in return?

No, they never do so.Love is actually aimless,it does not have a motive.It cherishes our soul.So,no need get entangled in the thoughts of confusion because these things will definitely be a sword to fight between love and infatuation.

COLLEGE KI SHAAM OR EK COFFEE

From giggles to bitter quarrels; from having fun to sentimental talks; from getting scolded  by professors to scold the professors; from decent fellas to the  hooligans of the campus; from fashion divas to the simple attires of the girls, college life is  a  blend  of  people and experiences. Being a part of this life I am experiencing all such things. Frankly if say , I didn’t ever  imagined that  my college  life would be  like the way  I see  in movies i.e. the  fights due  to “college kudis”; “the jodies” (couples) when  I  see  them  it really  makes  me  recall  the movie “Jaane tu ya jaane na”. I also felt tears  in my eyeball when someone slapped  my friend in the college  just  for  a stupid reason which was to have  a selfie with a  girl. Indeed in real life too we burst into tears when our friend is hurt, we cry when they cry, we are tensed when they  are tensed. Reel life and real life are so much similar in this way. All the  stress  which gets invoked inside our  mind in the college hours  ,finally  comes  to  an  end  when  I  have  a coffee  with  friends at last. This moment is amazing and worth capturing which I daily want to live.

"BHED CHAAL"- Is'nt it common?

The concept of "bhed chaal" is in every youth's mind. Now, the question arises-"What 'Bhed Chaal' actually is?" Bhed Chaal is a Hindi phrase that means the movement of sheep. If one sheep jumps in the pit, the other also do the same. Today's youth and "THE BHEDS" are much similar in this way. Most of them are such a hypocrite, they want to be unique but are not ready to do something unique. It is neither their fault nor it's the fault of their upbringing, the fault is of their age at which confusions conquer their mind. They have become rigid about what they want to do in their life and the major reason for this could be peer pressure. 

At the teenage friends become more important than their parents. The world of dreams rather than the practical world becomes the centre of attraction to them. They do not think about how facilitated their city is, all they think is that they want to go away from their city. Actually, facilities don't matter to them, the reality is that-"IF THEIR FRIENDS ARE GOING, WHY CAN'T THEY?"They say, oops sorry!  their friends say influenced by them they say that if they will live away from their hometown, they will become independent. 

Psychologists say that the phase of teenage is the most confusing phase of life. They are not even capable to distinguish between what is wrong or what is right, then how can one expect them to choose the best option for their career. Going outside their city most of them are just trapped in the vicious circle of activities that are not good for them. They should listen to their parents about what they ask them to do because they are the best well-wisher of their child and can never think something wrong about them. Parents on the other hand rather than punishing or chiding their child should handle them with care even if they do something wrong. They should become their friends at this stage and listen to them with a calm mind. Believe in your parents-"THEY CAN BE YOUR BEST FRIEND"......

At  last, I would like to say do not think so much about your future-"LIVE IN PRESENT, THIS MOMENT IS INEVITABLE."