LOVE V/S INFATUATION

Deeds often get confused between what love is and what is infatuation about.Now, if you are at your teens and you think playing of piano in your imagination for someone special is an indication of true love,then my friend you have barked the wrong tree.Love is something different,love is acceptance. Accepting people and situations as they are is the real meaning of love.All of us  face  a  situation in our life when we are confused between love and infatuation.We  are not able to find whether we are in love with a person or it’s just a acceptance of his company in our life for a acute period. There are some  tips which could help one to  find a perfect match .

·     If you are able to accept the person the way he/she is, you are definitely in love and if you are reluctant to do so, then my friend better you look for someone else.

·     Love is divine whereas infatuation is lust

       sexual feelings for your  partner is definitely not love  it  is more beyond sex , if your partner says a NO, it does not means that he/she doesn't love you, it simply means that it is beyond their comfort zone....so no need to force your parner..:p

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·     Love is beyond any relation while infatuation, it get restricted within relation

       love  has no bar , it can  be  for anyone.It can be for the  nature ; for the animals around ; for your girlfriend or your boyfriend....LOVE is LOVE. All  of  us  meet anonymous faces in our life , why  do  we feel like talking to them?.....The answer  is  love....because   love  is actually a  human nature....we  don't  hate  anyone from the  very beginning...and if  we don't hate  anyone we  obviously  love everyone..because love is complimentary  to hatred..

·     Love is smile while infatuation is sorrow

l      love  is  indeed  a  symbol  of  happiness. Whey  do  we  feel  calm  whenever  we are  around  smiley faces?...it's just  because  they  are  lovely  and  we feel  relaxed around  them...infatuation on  other  side , creates an  ocean   of  sadness  where  the fishes  of  misunderstanding , jealousy , anger , entanglement etc etc..exists...

·     Love doesn’t need explanation while infatuation does

       are  you  giving   explainations   to  your  friends  or  your partners?.....my  friend  if  is  it so , it  is  definitely not  love.If  your  buddy  knows you  he/she  would  never  ask  for  an  explanation  for   whatever  you  do...they  will  accept  your acions..

·     Love is long-lasting while infatuation is acute

       "ek  baaar   nahi  yeh  dil  100 baar  hai  tuta  par  shok mohabbat  ka  ab tak  na  chutaaa" dude if  your     heart  has shattered   so much..then  it  was'nt  your  mohabbat(love), it  was  your infatuation which  is'nt  forever...

·     Infatuation is expectation and love it doesn’t need any  expectation.Think about your parents,they do so much for you but do they ever expect anything in return?

No, they never do so.Love is actually aimless,it does not have a motive.It cherishes our soul.So,no need get entangled in the thoughts of confusion because these things will definitely be a sword to fight between love and infatuation.